Sunday, 31 May 2015


 If you want happiness in life, find a purpose of being alive,
Find satisfaction in some work you like and pursue that work to increase feeling nice,
Use money as a survival requirement but do not make choices just to survive
Use your body and mind to help others in ways where your contribution is dignified
Make decisions in life such that money remains the secondary goal and your main aim remains to find love, peace and satisfaction in everyday life

In today’s world, every problem is blamed on money. It is presumed that all problems of life can be resolved if we have money to buy everything we need.
The presumption being that buying /shopping/ eating out/ spending money on relaxation would help resolve critical issues of life by enabling running away from problems for some time.

However, money is not a solution but only a tool which helps reach a destination. The destination can be escape from a problem which is a temporary solution or permanent healing of the problem which requires training skills in emotional management.

If your goal of life is to earn lots of money, you will always be in problems. You will always keep craving for more. Your life will never be easy or content. You will have health problems or work problems and there will always be a need to earn more.

A focus on just earning money leads to suffering.  Money is the energy of the lower chakras. It is okay for poor people to just focus on earning money till they become comfortable in life. If the focus on money remains after a level of comfort is reached, it leads to great stress and negativity. Health problems rise if people remain stressed because of money problems which are illusory for the soul. Your level of intelligence and evolution rises, your focus needs to shift to other goals which are of higher order chakras .

Kalyug has come because people kept focusing on money over everything else. There were increases in manipulations and murders only for having a secure house and car for life.
But, the house and car never lead to happiness, peace, passion, love or contentment. Craving never ends with earning money for money.

Money, by itself, creates a need for more money. The more you earn, the more you spend and the more you need to earn.

As your incomes rise, your expenses also rise but contentment does not come in. You miss out on the very feeling of satisfaction which you desired in the first place,

People spend huge amounts on insurance and hospital bills when medical science has proven inadequate to solve any health problems. Soul lessons have to be learnt and applied for health problems to be resolved. Just having money to pay hospital bills will not make you healthy or wise.

There is a great desire to have money to buy cars which leads to stress. In Crowded streets, of under-developed countries where traffic jams make life feel suffocated, cars create more problems for mass movement.

In the west, where streets are empty and public transport is poor, buying cars makes sense. But in the second and third world, where population is centered as bee hives in crowded places, a desire to buy cars leads to over trafficking, time wasted in hell and soaring levels of anger in subdued minds.
Instead, metro trains and comfortable, spacious public transport can be invested upon. Or traffic jams can be used for practicing meditation in free time to stay positive.

Money is needed to buy houses.  People remain stressed because they have to pay house loans. Houses can be lived on economic basis. It is possible to find affordable houses on rent. In highly developed countries, houses are bought on installments. Yu don’t need to own everything you use to have self-respect. It is not necessary to have your own car, your own house or your own helicopter.

If you are the President of the world and you have to rescue people in emergencies, you can have more resources at your disposal. But, as a common man there is no need to stay negative because you cannot afford your own luxuries. You can enjoy a good life by sharing with love and compassion.

There are paths to happiness in learning sharing, compassion , in substituting money needs with nature given gifts; like walking instead of using cars where possible, spending routine time of mental and physical exercises, spending time on breathing natural air, eating vegetarian food, meditating in free time , enjoying silence, giving love with loyalty, living in contentment.

Living in craving for more never satiates. You have to create the energy of feeling satisfied in your present to feel satisfied in your future. Energies multiply with focus. Whichever feeling you focus upon by choice you will create. Hence, investment of time and energy needs to be on learning how to feel positive. When you choose to stay in peace, energy cycles of peace and happiness are created in your life.

Once you activate cycles of peace, only those people can walk in your life who can increase your peace.

Thursday, 21 May 2015


Solving immediate problems without evolving to a higher consciousness  is like cheating in an exam to pass the test without learning the lessons involved.

Everyone prays for miracles in life but few understand that miracles are a tipping point where soul frequency has to shift to anew cycle of thinking. Just as water turns into vapour by temperature rising, soul consciousness evolves by rise in vibrational frequency. The miracle is meant to increase your faith in God. It is not a short cut or escape by which your problem is resolved but you conveniently continue to  be the same old negative self. 

We are brought up in a way where we expect happiness to come only as a miracle because we assume that happiness cannot come in routine life where we have to compromise to survive.
Problems may be different but exist in each person’s life. In some people’s lives, problems seem to arise from every corner of existence; whereas, in others, there are specific areas of problems.
However, miracle healing is welcomed and searched for by most.
There are miracle healers all over the world. India has several saints working as miracle healers who sacrifice their own material life to serve the masses.

Yet, humanity, as a race is not evolving. Happiness is reducing in everyday life while depressions, anxieties and stress related problems are rising. If the saints who sacrificed their homes to help humanity were succeeding, the levels of overall happiness would have risen.
But, people are getting more disillusioned than aware.
The problem with miracle healing is that it does not help the soul evolve to heal itself.

God is like a good parent who guides and helps but does not solve the problem. If someone solves a problem, without your wisdom rising, it can be a trap to pull you into a vicious circle of blind faith and negative thinking.

Difficulties rise to help the soul change his or her thinking to improvise a better way of existence. But, miracle workers cure problems by energy transmissions without addressing the inner conflicts in the person which created the problems.
For example, SaiRam of Puttaparthi is famous for bringing dead man alive, as his websites on Google Search engine show. He kept the man in a dark room for three days when he was almost declared dead and on the third day, he awoke.
However, this solution did not address whether the man who revived became a better human being than before or worse. Did he rise over sickness for life or did he remain depressed by temperament? Was he able to solve the problems he was in which made his soul choose to decide to leave the body?
The solution may have used help of dark forces who answer prayers made in desperation to subjugate saints seeking popularity over wisdom. It is possible that another spirit was put in this dead man’s body and he was declared alive. It is possible that a demonic entity entered the man and used his body to spread blind belief and distress than faith and wisdom.

God does not over-rule free will. The soul is eternal. Solving one problem by magic does not help the spirit evolve to a higher consciousness, which is necessary to solve problems in the long run. Miracles are blessed only if your karmic ebt is over and the miracle leads to more happiness and peace in your life.

If the miracle just solves an immediate problem, saves a life which is sad or cures a diseases , it over-rules the fact that the soul is eternal and every problem has a lesson which needs to be learned before your karma gets over. A miracle which does not increase happiness or positive energy in your life on an everyday babies is usually performed by a  dark force to convince you of blind faith. A miracle can be a reward if your soul lessons are over or it can be cheating if a saint solves your problem without you changing yourself to be a better human being .It is like a  child asking a parent for solving a test paper without making any effort himself or herself. 

Every physical problem has an emotional lesson attached. There is no escape from emotional responsibilities if you want to rise to happiness in all aspects of your life. Local healing does not lead to holistic betterment. A miracle may cure your back ache for some time but if you are having back aches because you take too much financial stress, the problems of having financial problems would remain and trouble you in other ways.
Similarly, a miracle may get you a child but it will not train you for good parenting. Your child may remain unhappy unless you get the child through your own meditation and self-healing and become a calmer person in the process.

Miracles get activated if faith is absolute; but problems return in other forms you’re your soul consciousness evolves.


Monday, 11 May 2015

Using Forgiveness - Techniques of Evolution Towards Happiness

The place is an illusion, its your inner space which counts
The face is an illusion, its the soul which connects,
Life is an illusion, its the energy which evolves ,
Holding On to Sorrow is like holding on to thorns in the hope they will become flowers,
Moving on means letting go of that which serves you no more in making you happier

Forgiveness is considered a necessary technique by all spiritualists and healers for those on the path of peace, happiness and enlightenment.
However, forgiveness is usually mis-interpreted. Forgiveness does not mean that abusers have to be pardoned and allowed to continue abuse. Forgiveness only means that you remove the negative energy of the abuser from inside your auric field so that the energy of the abuser does not reduce your positivity.
There are techniques of forgiveness such that the energy of the abuser can be removed from your aura and you detach from the person.
Just saying mentally that you forgive another person is useful only if you do not lose your positive power by forgiving a negative entity. However, if you feel crushed an s a soul because you are told to forgive than remain angry, you have to learn how to use techniques of emotional management to apply forgiveness to help you and not harm your positive soul frequency.
Some methods of using forgiveness include:
  1. 1.       The Energy Cord Cutting Technique
  2. 2.       The Film Making/ Observer technique
  3. 3.       The Crushing Ant Technique
  4. 4.       The Spirit Release Technique
  5. 5.       Hyonodrama ( Telepathic Talking )
  6. 6.       Understanding Perceptual Positions
  7. 7.       The Bird’s Eye View _ Aligning with a Higher Consciousness
  8. 8.       The Practice of Developing Thoughtlessness
  9. 9.       Anger Management Techniques

A brief Description of two of these techniques is given below. However, to use each, as may be required in several different contexts, you would have to read my books on the link below:

The books explain the spiritual science aspect of these techniques along with detailed steps. The following techniques are summarized from my book - REDEFINING HAPPINESS (a soul’s Perspective) and/or go to a hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner etc.

The Energy Cord Cutting Technique

Imagine yourself in a dark tunnel. Imagine the other person on the other side of the tunnel. Imagine a rope between you and the other person. Cut the rope. (You can imagine an angel coming and cutting the rope or you). See you soul coming back to you from that person. Feel that person’s soul leaving you an integrating back with his own body. Feel yourself becoming double in aura size as your soul comes back. See the person going away far from you. Imagine yourself after one week, smiling and relaxed. The person’s energy would not affect you as much anymore even if s/he remains in your house. Now, from a detached position, forgive the abuser. You can repeat the process as many times as you need. Thee person will not go from your life unless karmic debt is over. However, each time you cut the energy cord, the negative energy control will reduce. You can also rebuild a new energy cord whenever you feel a need for anew attachment.

The Film Making/Observer Technique

Imagine the situation which created anger as a film. See yourself being abused as the victim or child and the other person as the villain or abuser. Judge from a viewer’s perspective if there is anything the child needs to learn. If yes, see the victim obeying the boss and check if the abuser’s behavior improves in the second scene. If it does not, then realize that the victim is not responsible for the pain in the abuser’s life. Now, make another film where the victim does not obey the abuser and remains detached or walks away.  Now, check whether the victim is in a better position far from the abuser? Now, from the more powerful position, let the victim forgive the abuser.

These techniques can be combined and adapted to individual needs.

While doing any self-healing, always maintain a practice of remaining in silence for ten minutes every day.  Forget all your chains of life while in this thoughtless state. Breathe in golden light and exhale tightness from different parts of the body. Smile and Thank God while remaining in this illusion of being in space and peace. As you practice the illusion, it will change your reality to bring more freedom and peace in your life over time.

You would find more on the benefits of using thoughtlessness as a meditation technique in the book :