Wednesday, 29 April 2015


Indigo children have more power than  normal human children do. They can create changes through their thoughts. They also catch thoughts of other people and hence cannot be fooled easily.

As the following books says : NEVER LIE TO AN INDIGO

INDIGO and CRYSTAL are names given to people on Earth who are aliens in human bodies. Indigos are warriors of light. They spread awareness through destroying old ways of being.
Crystals are messengers of Light. They come after Indigos to spread peace.

These people come from advanced civilizations and help Earth during phases of transformation. The reason being that all matter in the universe is connected . Hence, turmoil on one planet causes unrest n the others  , as well.

INDIGOS are blue in aura. They have been coming on Earth since a long time.All our Gods and scientists who have stood out differently from the masses have been INDIGOS.
INDIGO is an advanced planet supported by Lord SHIVA.

Indigos are supposed to be aggressive and temperamental in nature. As children , they rebel and cannot fit into set moulds. They question traditions and schooling systems. They identify with Gods. They do not believe in rituals. They keep thinking about the universe and the WHYs and they have  a constant feeling that they do not belong anywhere. They feel non understood more than others. They also have psychic instincts which they either develop or suppress. But, if they suppress their psychic instincts, they become too materialsitic and greedy as adults. That makes them deeply restlless and unhappy as souls .

Some of them also receive spirit communication involuntarily which confuses them unless they learn to restrain their hyperactivity and meditate.

Indigo kids may be irritable, stubborn or hyperactive. Several indigo kids in the west are classified as ADHD ( attention deficit hyperactive disorder ) and put on medications to keep them calm. The INDIGO mind thinks faster than a human mind and hence the children cannot sit quietly in a class. Thy tend to be naughty or they become dreamers. Some of them also become geniuses and make inventions. However, several of them are suppressed on Earth and may become dysfunctional at being non understood.

As is written in the book “ IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS” : how past lives affect the present , a soul’s perspective

Apparently, Dev’s role was to help the Light forces through using his aggression. If that was so, Dev could be an Indigo. There are several Indigos on Earth now as Earth is going through a transition on the astronomical planes. towards the New Age
Dev felt a misfit in society. He was rebellious and he had unchannelised strength which made him restless to the extent of being destructive. He had all the characteristics of an Indigo child.
Though Dev did not know who Indigos were since we had never discussed about them, I anyway decided to ask the Old Man about them.
“Is he an Indigo?”
There was a pause as Dev looked confused by the question. Then, he replied on behalf of the Old Man.
“Yes… he has always been an indigo…he was called to do the work of Light but he got carried away…This is his last chance to go back to his planet”, replied the Old Man.
“Indigos are interplanetary beings who have come from another planet to help Earth. They have been coming since a long time but at this time, they are here in far more numbers than usual.  Indigos are aggressive. They are from more advanced civilizations and can’t put up with the slow way things happen here.“”
Indigos can’t put up with rituals and doing things just because they are told so. They question the system. Hence they are rebellious. They are here to break old systems. They are supposed to be very intelligent also. Indigo kids are usually put on medications by psychiatrists to help slow them down so that they can fit in human society. Otherwise, they keep fighting and getting into trouble “
——————————–excerpt from chapter 15 - The Fanatic General
However,  Indigos are the snake clan . Some of them may become very powerful as they have the power to influence masses.

Mythology uses the term vampires for indigos as their soul shape is of reptile like bodies with wings with unusual strength and power . They are the snake clan and some of them are very advanced souls which can fly as souls. Death does not worry Indigos. They come with intuitive abilities and they know life is eternal for the soul.

Indigos remain on Earth over life-times and keep exerting influence on human minds long after the death of their body like saints or musicians. They can become famous as they have unique talents and gifts with which they come to help Earth  .

Indigos can be white vampires like Gods or black vampires like the demons . These are inter-dimensional snakes who can fly and attain human bodies .

These aliens may get caught in negative thinking and misuse their power on Earth for money or fame. But, in their heart remains an urge to understand God as distinct from how Earth defines it. They are seekers from within. If they succeed in their soul mission, they create significant evolution of consciousness but if they fail, they cause unusual destruction.
Lord Ram, Lord Krishna, Jesus Christ, Saibaba of Shirdi, Mahatma Gandhi, Michael Jackson, Einstein are examples of Indigos.
For more details on INDIGO and CRYSTAL children,please search the internet


Crystal children are alien souls or advanced souls who come on Earth from highly positive dimensions to help Earth on its evolution to a more happy planet.

These children radiate light or peaceful energy from their being even if they appear abnormal from conventional criteria.These children are coming in large numbers in the NEW AGE.

The NEW AGE was predicted and has begun. It is the end of Kalyug and the beginning of Satyug.

There is need for contentment in the inner self which buying consumer items does not bring. There is an increasing need for spiritualism, and finding health cures through methods of accessing God and the subconscious through logic based methods like hypnotherapy, past life therapy, NLP etc.
The alien souls have facilitated this change in thinking to help humanity evolve to a better quality of existence.

There are three types of Alien children who are coming in large numbers on Earth – Indigo, Crystal, Rainbow.

 Most common are the Indigo children who have been coming since centuries but are more widespread now. These are the warriors of light. These are blue in aura.

 Gods and Goddesses, who incarnated on Earth like God Ram, Goddess Sita, Shiva – Sati , Krishna, Arjuna etc. were indigos. Indigos are advanced souls who later came as the leaders who fought for justice. Some of them were famous as the writers , musicians , actors and dancers who created shift in thinking. The rebels and revolutionaries were Indigos eg. Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela, Michael Jackson , Princess Diana etc.

Indigo children are the dreamers, the drug addicts and the rebels. Usually, they fight a lot if there is any injustice. They want truth and justice to be the norm in every little thing they do. They question and ask for logic almost about everything. If they are scolded or beaten, they may become very silent but they do not become obedient. They are usually meat eaters but it helps them to become vegetarians. They need to calm down their restless energy which seeks to break the structures of negative thinking. They come to bring changes in the education system, the government and legal systems which are dysfunctioning . They come from the light of Shiva- the energy of destruction.

Crystal children are the peacekeepers of Light. They are green in aura. They come from the light of Vishnu- the energy of new creation, maintenance of peace, harmony and bonding.

As Contrasted with Indigos, Crystal children are soft. They are like crystal balls of pure light. They radiate love wherever they go. They run away from violence, fights, arguments and view life from a pure energy level. Their energy is peaceful and heals others by their just being around. Several of them are autistic, nonverbal, special needs children.

The severely autistic children are crystal children . They come from very high frequency zones and cannot adjust their speed to match the negative frequencies on Earth. They can communicate telepathically and do not  seek to prove themselves while on Earth. They prefer a peaceful environment and are fussy in eating.

Crystal children are also dreamers but they accept their divine self. They are usually isolated and silent. They love with a  pure heart and cannot stand violence. In fact, if they see their parents fight, they feel much turmoil and go into a shell. Their challenge is to remain pure in spirit and spread positive energy with their being, inspite of facing negativities on Earth. These children may also be classified as slow learners and they do not mix easily. They do not like competitive play as it hurts others when somebody wins and another loses. They like to spread peace and love to all .

Some examples of crystal incarnations in human history are Gautam Buddha, Chaitanya Mahaprabhu, Jesus Christ, Albert Einstein etc.

The advanced soul,  which comes in as the healer, messiah or inventor,  may face so-called temporary failure on Earth, but gains personally in terms of positive energy created in the process. The soul works on the principle that if it raises its vibrational frequency further upwards by feeling positive and spreading positivity, it can move to a higher dimension whether it receives material success on Earth or not..

The difficulties which the advanced souls face arise largely because this soul has to break old, redundant systems of existence to evolve to a better way of life. It has to create new definitions of structure, and to facilitate further soul evolution. For that, it has to ‘not fit in’ with the existing norms of life, so that the people around are forced to look at what is wrong with the existing institution.

With each level of evolution, traditional, ritualistic ways of life have to be discarded for a higher level of emotional fulfillment. Happiness, power and success are usually redefined in this process of soul evolution.

The advanced soul on being misunderstood, keeps feeling that ‘I don’t belong’. It feels alienated because it comes from a different level of consciousness. It feels it can’t conform to existing norms because they don’t suit his needs and feels sad when people force him/her to conform.
The multitude of special needs children, Indigo and Crystal children incarnating on Earth today, are examples of such advanced souls, who are helping to break existing negative value systems, by ‘not fitting in’ the rut. 
             For instance, the ratio of autistic children is rising on an everyday basis as the newly entering souls are refusing to fit into the traditional education system. Education systems as they exist today are very theory based. They teach planetary positions but do not teach how energies move for creation in everyday life. Knowing science or civics from an observer’s perspective does not help adults in creating emotional or physical well-being for themselves in their regular lives. Mass education, as imparted today, has led to people feeling suppressed, violent, angry, depressed and sick on an ever increasing basis.
            There is an almost complete lack of understanding of cause and effect relationships between thought and reality.  People rarely attribute problems in their lives to their own negative thinking. Instead, they keep looking for external causes and seeking to solve or overcome them. Yet, the problems keep increasing in one form or another, owing to a consistently negative thinking process developed in schooling years. Our competitive education systems, train us to focus on negativity, on ‘what is missing’, as a way of life.

            The rising number of special needs children is indirectly forcing the existing mass education systems to review its own efficacy. Each soul wants to be treated as a unique individual with special talents rather than become a by-product of a mass competitive world, where self-worth needs are continually sacrificed for a so-called material good of all.

            These so-called disabled people who do not fit in the main stream of education, are advanced souls because they are undergoing difficulties themselves for a higher good of all.  They are accelerating the speed of change towards a more fulfilling quality of life. They are motivating people’s abilities to be compassionate   to use their individual intelligence for understanding their own truths as against traditional values, and to become wiser as souls - qualities, which are otherwise lost in the rat race.                 
As is discussed more in chapter eighteen, the planet Earth is expected to move into the fourth dimension in the next decade, so, to be able to survive on the planet, human beings have to raise their frequencies in line with the changing frequencies of the planet.
------------------------excerpt from  Chapter 4
Soul Evolution, Soul frequencies, Thought waves and Dimensions

RAINBOW CHILDREN have been rare . Hanuman, Isis and Iris can be some example of rainbow souls who were peacekeepers and warriors of Light. Rainbow children have bright auras of several colours. They can understand several perspectives or viewpoints... Rainbow souls come to activate a final change, to tie up loose threads and help Earth move into a new dimension of harmony.

A soul may evolve from an Indigo to a Crystal and Rainbow dimensions in the same life-time as it achieves the purpose planned and acquires more peace in inner self.

Tuesday, 21 April 2015

BREAK JAILING BELEIFS OF YOUR LIFE TO RECREATE YOUR HAPPINESS & HEALTH LTIES-Happiness-ebook/dp/B00QNJ9EB8/ref=sr_1_9?s=books&i e=UTF8&qid=1429600434&sr=1-9&keywords=swati+shiv

Our lives revolve around traditions which define how we live life . Schooling, medical health, self defense/armies, marriage - are four pillars of society which are dysfunctioning and creating negative thinking by promoting blind tradition.
. The reason they were created no longer holds true once they are followed. Schooling does not offer a method to be happy and compassionate as adults to cope up with everyday demands , Medical health offers temporary cures but diseases return in one form or another, Armies take up huge amount of tax savings but are unnecessary if compassion was cultivated ; while police can help in self defense if the world was one . Marriage promises love and support but becomes a war of disagreements for most  which takes its toll on stress, health and harmony of life.

This compromised way of life is a manifestation of being in KALYUG . It is not the only way of existence and this can change if we review and change our life choices, detach and understand our soul purpose of incarnation. As the NEW AGE rises, SAT YUG  brings forth its demands where people want to be truthful and good because it is sensible to do so, to be happy and healthy. It is wise to not compromise with negative thinking for creating good impressions as negative thinking releases negative hormones in the body which imbalance the body's harmony and create diseases.

All these traditional institutions need to be reformed in ways that the negativity affecting them in minimized and their positive benefits continue. This cannot happen unless we understand the needs of our soul and why we come on earth .My books elaborate in detail the concept of the soul's perspectove of happiness because the body, mind and soul are one. ogy-Report-ebook/dp/B00SBYURIW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF 8&qid=1429600390&sr=1-1&keywords=swati+shiv
Following traditions to make the body obey a structured way of life often negaties the essence of being alive. people start behaving like robots and take out their frustraton through violence in non-anapprpriate ways. Most of these traditions are carried over from childhood . We get conditioned into thinking in line with the institutional structures we are made to follow.
My book IN SEARCH OF happiness is about how the soul repeats the same mistakes over life-times because the institutional structures he grows up in are very slow to change. The soul feels defeated at the end of each life though the body is publicly acknowledged as successful .
The soul mission remains unaccomplished as long as he strives to get success and power while grossly ignoring soul needs .
The lead character of the Book is named DEV . The book is based on real past life case history.  The following sections are deleted from the published book due to the length considerations and are being posted here for those who need . -Shiv-ebook/dp/B00QTKH7RE/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1419762 128&sr=8-4&keywords=swati+shiv

‘Are we mentally jailed under  Dinosauric institutions?’

Dev’s second past life session brought up another common problem which is one of the main causes of existence of negative energy in the world.

The problem is that of our need to follow institutionalization without questioning or allowing change in the set norms. We have structured our life around a wall of institutions like schooling, marriage, armies, and health services, which set the norms of how we should live our lives.
These norms are largely focused on achieving external measures of success, as defined by conventional doctrines, irrespective of whether these measures satisfy our core soul needs or not.
So, we want our children to go to school even if the syllabus taught may not help them understand what they need to learn to achieve happiness in life. We want armies to protect our countries even though maintaining armies uses funds which could otherwise be used for intellectual and emotional development of human beings. We follow health services which do not take into account the soul lessons involved behind recurring problems. And, we want to settle down in marriage with partners even though, marriage, as it exists today in several countries, tends to inhibit freedom of thought and expression instead of fostering it.

These institutions block soul evolution because of their resistance to change. They don’t accept new thought necessary for expanding horizons of the human mind towards a happier world.
Because these institutions exist and we feel compelled to follow them we feel like victims of negative circumstances.
As evolving souls, we feel jailed at energy levels due to repeatedly feeling mentally suppressed, even though we are not physically jailed.
These institutions can be called the DINOSAURS of society, because they are big in terms of the influence they exert and slow in terms of their ability to change.
If we were to give a shape to the energy concept of these institutions, they would appear like huge, rigid, Dinosauric thought forms. -Perspective-Happiness-ebook/dp/B00S6QKZAK/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF 8&qid=1428481912&sr=8-2&keywords=swati+shiv

Like Dev refused to disobey orders , we hold these institutions as sacred. We make our choices around our base foundations. Like him, usually, we too go by the label of the institution irrespective of whether the label justifies the ideals of the profession or not. Hence, whether a person chooses to be a soldier, a teacher, a doctor, or a homemaker, s/he rarely finds herself/himself doing what s/he intended to do, by joining the institutional set up of that profession.
For example:
Army—a soldier swears to fight for the people when he joins the army. Yet, very often, he ends up fighting for beliefs which do not help the common man achieve justice. He is not allowed to look into the deeper aspects of the war—like whether the war he fights is justified from the perspective of the weak and oppressed or whether the terrorists he kills have been unjustly exploited earlier.
The soldier chooses to give in to circumstances and not to think because, at an individual level, he finds the whole structure of the army too huge to fight against alone. He bends under the Dinosaur and allows it to continue ruling.
Instead, if funds used for maintaining armies could be used for fostering development of human conscience and intellect, there may be no more need of opting for wars to resolve problematic issues.

Schools—Like the army, schooling is a base structure of our society. It lays foundations for adult lives. But, a teacher is usually, unable, to help kids develop coping skills for the emotional demands of adulthood.
We rarely use more than 30% of the theoretical concepts we study in schools in our professional lives but we use up a good deal of our precious founding years learning subject details which would not be relevant to us when we grow up and enter jobs or businesses.
How many of us need to know how fractions and trigonometry sums are solved or the distance of the Sun from the Earth in exact units or the type of algae that grow in water? Why is it relevant to teach all this when more important emotional learning skills need to be inculcated?
Instead of spending hours on lecturing about traditional subjects, concepts like stress management, love for fellow humans, understanding inner talents etc. can be practically taught which would help kids create positivity in their lives?
Most schools almost run like armies. Pupils are expected to obey authority without questioning it. The slow method of teaching a mass class causes frustration in several students who process information quicker than others. The need to develop patience to sit in a class-room often feels unnecessary especially to the brighter students. When forced upon, it may lead to violence among students who are otherwise, traumatized by having to study subjects they hardly find meaningful. Ritual is given priority over reason since the need to study becomes a ritualistic tradition than the need of the hour for the little, evolving minds.
Students and teachers are encouraged to blindly follow the Dinosauric institution of schooling, even if it spreads more negative than positive, growth oriented energy.
Instead, if students could learn from the beginning an open-ended syllabus which would also help them meet their soul needs, along with studying what is required to achieve external success, then their attitude towards learning would automatically become more positive. R-Shiv/dp/8184956304/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&qid=1428482271&a mp;sr=8-9&keywords=swati+shiv

Health—Like in other professions, the doctor needs to look beyond the external body for understanding the core need of the job he tries to do. He has to focus on the feelings underlying a disease to be able to heal the person satisfactorily.
Medications and surgical operations are very important because they help to clean existing clusters of negative energy and fill in deficits of positive energy. But, if physical problems are solved only by using medications people tend to ignore learning their soul lessons. That defeats the soul and makes it want to leave the body.
Medicines heal temporarily but if the emotional issues underlying persist, the problems repeat in the same form or in another form.
Hence, people keep facing similar kinds of body problems on a recurring basis, as they keep facing similar kinds of emotional traumas. For instance, joint pain shifts from one part of the body to another or skin disease and asthma alternate.
Energies of similar thoughts multiply. People do not realize that the problem recurs not because of failure of the medical system but because they do not raise their consciousness in tune with their soul evolution needs.
If repeatedly suppressed by medication, the emotional issue takes the form of a fatal disease because the soul chooses to then leave the body and come back with the same emotional unresolved lessons in a fresh body.
Doctors often suffer from stress and anxiety problems because of their frustration in being unable to help the patients get cured, as much as they would like to. Many of them start following holistic healing techniques over a period of time, but most of them remain bound under the constraints of their dinosauric medical institution.
For healing the soul, and the body together, the worldly phenomenon need to be studied more from the energy perspective than from the physically, tangible perspective. For the soul, which cannot access the physical, tangible world the disease exists only in the form of a low frequency thought or energy. So, for the thought to get healed and transcended into positive, the external form needs to be sidelined so that one can find out the reason behind the consistently, recurring negative thought which manifests the physical disease.
Marriage—the institution of marriage can be an important reason for negative thinking if two people choose to be in a marriage for reasons other than love or mutual compatibility. Staying married for the sake of children, money of convenience is not healthy for the body or the soul. We suffer from physical diseases, depressions and anxieties very often because we choose to stay with a person whose ideology causes much conflict in our minds.
There is a constant focus on negative aspects of life because we get entangled in arguments and blackmails. The feeling of helplessness perpetuates the marriage. We have a core desire to be loved and accepted which does not get satisfied by a marriage of convenience. When love dies out, the frustration of being non-understood keeps nagging us because we choose to stay married.
Yet, we like to believe the marriage is satisfying its purpose by helping us live as a unit, just as Dev chose to believe that being in the army would spread justice.
Any institution which spreads more negative energy in our lives than positive needs to be reviewed, be it a job, a course of study, a marriage or a medical treatment.
Learning to focus on what the soul desires emotionally is necessary before choosing to continue on a dysfunctional way of life.
We cannot attain the satisfaction we desire from our efforts if the soul, the energy within us does not feel satisfied with the outcome of our work. External rewards are meaningless if we do not feel content internally.
Just following labels, and moving in the shadow of dinosaurs, may not help us to achieve our purpose of life from the soul’s perspective. We cannot expect happiness to automatically fall into our laps if we do not make efforts to change our beliefs and structural institutions which make us focus more on unhappiness.

All these institutions have to be revamped and rebuilt in a way that the soul can learn its lessons and grow by following them instead of having to slow down its evolution by feeling constricted. Their present structure needs to become extinct with the coming era just as Dinosaurs became extinct with the Ice ages so that a New Age could set in.
At an individual level, we need to know, like Dev had to, that we have the power to bring about a change in the system. Each of our thoughts, which have a feeling entailed in it, impacts the process of creation in the universe.

Friday, 10 April 2015


Do not make efforts to sacrifice your happiness for another's goals,
You are a part o God, your happiness comes from thinking abundantly like God,
The soul has come on Earth to achieve happiness , peace and joy,in its own ways,
Just as you dont like another's tastes in food, his or her happiness would not satisfy your goals in life
Have desires which satisfy your own soul
Pursuing aimless money, success, fame or crime would lead you away from God's walls,
You need to be connected to your inner self for being healthy, happy or wise

Blog concept from - Chapter 19- Creation Of Happiness


 We all desire as part of being human. We come on earth to desire and to create, as the soul is co-creator, the part of the Creator.

However, several of our desires are carried over from our parents, siblings, friends or school pressures. We desire somethings because they want us to achieve, not because we want that kind of achievement ourselves. Ask yourself- 

  1. Are you desiring for your own pleasure or another’s satisfaction?
  2. Will your sacrifice increase your satisfaction or make you feel like a sacrificed goat ?
  3. If you do not pursue this desire or action which another person wants you to, will you be a happier person in the long run or a sadder person ? Do you have alternative desires which pull your soul ? 
  4. Will your sacrifice of your own desire for another's peace,  make another person happy in his own struggles or will you imitate his struggles also along with his ambitions?
  5. Is the action you are taking to satisfy your desire, helping you achieve the satisfaction you desire or are you failing to get the outcome you desire repeatedly? If you feel you are not progressing, you need to move backwards, relearn the strategy, review the outcome again and then restart the pursuit. or change what you desire.
  6. Aim at satisfaction with every desire you pursue because money, fame, success or power will increase you happiness only after you achieve satisfaction.
  7. What do you lose by pursuing the desire ? Is the loss increasing or decreasing your overall happiness ?
  8. What do you gain by pursuing the desire as advised by another ? Is the gain worth the sacrifice ? 

For example, a child who paints may desire to be a scientist because his parents want him to be intellectually acclaimed.
Similarly, a girl may desire to get married to make her parents happy. You may have an ambition of a successful career in army, because your father dreamt of being a soldier. Or you may desire to be a superstar because actors are acclaimed in your house hold.

As long as the desire is pursued to make someone else happy, it may backfire as it would lead to increase in your unhappiness, stress and anxiety. 

 There are two reasons for this:

First reason is that you cannot make anyone else happy by your sacrifice. Sacrifice only as much as it leads to positive energy in your own vibrations. Another person’s happiness depends on his own ability to feel positive in his own circumstances, his power to vibrate his/her own positive light as the co-creator and his ability to balance his own karmic debt. 

If a person is negative by temperament, your sacrifice will not make him positive for long-term. His own circumstances would catch up and he would start feeling sad again in spite of your sacrifice. You will feel like a failure because you pursued his/her ambition hoping that it would make him a better person, but it would not till that person works on his ambition himself.

Secondly, if you sacrifice your desires and needs to pursue another’s happiness, your own happiness would be secondary to you. As long as you tell yourself you are secondary, you will attract the energy of being the second one from the world. Satisfaction would elude you because you would not consider yourself as deserving as another person and you will find yourself dis-satisfied and stressed, simply because you are trying to be happy by pursuing dreams of another person.

Several people attain success but fail to be happy or healthy only because they pursue other people’s ambitions. They try to make everyone else happy by pursuing a marriage or a profession but fail to understand their own soul craving.That is why it is important to align INTENTION – ACTION- OUTCOME and CONSEQUENCE before pursuing any desire. Ask yourself the questions given above repeatedly
  1.  If your inner peace rises with every choice you make, it means you are aligned to your  soul purpose

Sunday, 5 April 2015

Love, Sex and Loyalty

When relationships break, a usual reason is disloyalty. energy cord cutting helps in healing the soul and moving on.

Loyalty is needed if you want to evolve to happiness, as a soul seeking satisfaction or  enlightenment.

Being loyal from the core,  is a sign of soul evolution as it involves sacrifice, taming of wilderness, and delaying immediate satisfaction for building a loving household.

Sacrificing physical demands for oneness of the soul is necessary to evolve. Monkeys evolved into human beings and loyalty, as a concept, developed as civilization demanded private ownership of property.  .

Human consciousness evolved from being animal like to building a civilization, because loyalty evoked the need. Towns were created wherein people stayed together in loyalty based households. 

Before there were rituals of marriage, there was loyalty amongst soulmates who stayed together and made a house to be in oneness. The need for a house, and then countries arouse because there was a need for love and loyalty in the evolving soul. Loyalty is a concept of the civilized world and it cannot be disregarded as insignificant in love, sex and marriage ( or simultaneous evolution of souls.)

In modern times, Loyalty in love can  be equated to a street dog evolving to becoming a house dog.

Indian religion depicts that the highest dimension Gods  are loyal to their partners, who depict oneness in thinking and sexuality.

Loyalty helps love grow deep and strong If the partners can complete each other and do not compete with each other, if they can synchronize their needs to adjust to each other’s work demands and can agree in thinking during difficult times.

However, most couples cannot stay loyal to each other because of differences in thinking. Loyalty is bad if it is for negative people who make you feel caged/ suffocated in expression, 

Some people feel so caged being tied to one person that they prefer being street dogs.

However, being stray does not increase happiness and loyalty helps more in increasing happiness if the partners evolve together as souls, like each other and can adjust without bitterness staying long.

Having free sex with anyone has karmic setbacks. You exchange deep core energies during the act of sex, and you would pick up the sadness of the person you have sex with, as energies move in with the body. A happy man can become sad and a  good man can become bad if he has sex wita negatve woman. Similarly, a spiritual woman can become depressed and a  beautiful woman can become fat, by having sex with a  person whose energies are low in frequency than hers.

Sex is a physical need and seeks satiation but,  like market sex like fast food does not always give satisfaction. People eat fatty foods like men going to prostitutes to fulfil hunger. But, bad sex like bad food is harmful. Love arises from taking responsibility. 

Sex can lead to anxiety, stress and diseases. If unaccompanied with love, it creates mental tension more than give peace.

 While being a street dog gives you freedom, it also makes you beg for satisfaction. You keep hunting and you do not get satiated. There is endless craving and no respite.
Terrorists, dacoits and criminals who seek negative power to indulge in violence, use sex to gain sadness from women they harm. Soldiers in war are allowed to rape women because the energy of hurt passes through sex and makes the soldiers revengeful, to attack.
Frustrations soar after rape and violent needs rise. The restlessness which a person seeks to calm through sex, does not calm down. After a short spam of rest, anger becomes double as you also catch the anger of the person you use for sex.

Taming yourself to be loyal in sex is a part of becoming civilized as human beings. Just as animals evolved into humans and made houses, consciousness evolves when you stick to one person and sacrifice immediate satisfaction for freedom in expressing passion as in long term togetherness.
Just as health grows if you can eat more healthy food than fast food, happiness, love and sexual connection deepens if you do not allow foreign energies to build walls between you and your soulmate